Romans 5:15

"But not as the offence, so also is the free gift. For if through the offence of one many be dead, much more the grace of God, and the gift by grace, which is by one man, Jesus Christ, hath abounded unto many." Romans 5:15

Monday, October 29, 2012

Sunday Sermon - The Duty of the Christian Woman

Rev Quek, 2 September 2012

1 Timothy 2:9-10
"In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works."

Different roles and functions do not infer the class of the gender. The bible does not teach first or second class but different roles and functions. The modern society is focused on the looks of a person, including artificial modification of photos of a person's looks. Apostle Paul referred to the looks of woman as it is of importance to them. We ought to dressed modestly, one the does not attract the lust of the eyes. Modest dressing must also come with shamefacedness - the demeanour that is also modest, and with self control. Self control in looks, works and conduct.

The reason why woman needs to focus on the looks and conduct is because the lust of the flesh is the key weakness of man. This can be seen in the modem marketing tactics of products, such as pretty woman to sell cars. Throughout the biblical history there were no record of any woman with many husband, but there are uncountable men who had many wives. Man has their own sets of sin and weaknesses that they need to deal with - spirituality, lusts etc; woman also need to deal with their own. Women as mothers also need to take care that their children do not learn the wrong concept and let such action affect their conduct. Do not be a stumbling block to both men and children.

Ladies need to refrain from being controlled or led astray by the modern fashion trends that aimed to lure men. There is nothing wrong in braiding of hair or any fashion so long as it does not cause men to fall and succumb to the sin of the lust of the flesh. Neither should ladies flashes their riches by adorning pearls and gold, for modesty is the key. Ladies need to wear appropriately for the location and occasion, especially for the purpose of the event such as for worship. Dressings should not distract others from the purpose of worship. Modesty must come before comfort and be done with self control. There is also no reason to go to other extreme as to not care about their appearance. Sloppiness and uncaring is unbecoming of a woman. Such dressing does not indicate spirituality.

Instead of outer appearance woman should be adorned with good works, that people would see you as someone that serving God faithfully.

"Be not conform to the world." Romans 12:2, but professing Godliness in all ways. Let modesty, shamefacedness and good works be the characteristics of our lives.

Dispute Resolution in the Light of the Bible

Acts 11:1-16

Does the bible teaches us anything on disputes and how it should be resolved?

In Acts 11, those who opposed to the salvation of the Gentiles were the Jews who were circumcised. According to their tradition, Gentiles were unclean and had no hope of salvation. This is the pride of a race.

Apostle Peter used the following virtue in his argument.
A. Humility - Peter could have used rank as the first Apostle of Christ, but he did not. He used this example to teach and instruct. Peter himself went through trials put forth to him, when he denied Christ three times. In the dream God instructed him three times to "slay and eat". As such he would not disobey the Lord this time. Be helpful and have the patience to explain and expound on the scriptures. Gently and patiently go through the scriptures and allow the Holy Spirit to convince, convict and convert the heart.

B. Honesty - Be truthful and factual in every sentence and word. Our testimony should not be spiced up or embellished with exaggeration. Expound and expose everything in order so that there is transparency. Be systematic, and orderly in order to reduce confusion and build trust. We should not be hiding any facts, including those the may not be to our advantage. Untruthful account will not stand under examination. So long as the account is pure from the heart, we have nothing to fear.

Accountability towards God outweighs all others in situations such as this.


Thursday, October 4, 2012

When Jesus Comes to Dinner

 This story comes through an email, a very good illustration of God's teaching -" Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me." Matthew 24:40.

Ruth looked at the envelope again. There was no stamp, no postmark, only her name and address. She read the letter one more time...

Dear Ruth,

I'm going to be in your neighborhood Saturday afternoon and I'd like to stop by for a visit.

Love Always,

Jesus

Her hands were shaking as she placed the letter on the table. "Why would the Lord want to visit me? I'm nobody special. I don't have anything to offer."

With that thought, Ruth remembered her empty kitchen cabinets. "Oh my goodness, I really don't have anything to offer. I'll have to run down to the store and buy something for dinner."

She reached for her purse and counted out its contents. Seven dollars and forty cents. "Well, I can get some bread and cold cuts, at least." She threw on her coat and hurried out the door.

A loaf of french bread, a half-pound of sliced turkey, and a carton of milk...leaving Ruth with a grand total of twelve cents to last her until Monday. Nonetheless, she felt satisfied as she headed home, her meager offerings tucked under her arm.

"Hey lady, can you help us, lady?" Ruth had been so absorbed in her dinner plans, she hadn't even noticed two figures huddled in the alleyway. A man and a woman, both of them dressed in little more than rags.

"Look lady, I ain't got a job, ya know, and my wife and I have been living out here on the street, and, well, now it's getting cold and we're getting kinda hungry and, well, if you could help us, lady, we'd really appreciate it."

Ruth looked at them both. They were dirty, they smelled bad and, frankly, she was certain that they could get some kind of work if they really wanted to. "Sir, I'd like to help you, but I'm a poor woman myself. All I have is a few cold cuts and some bread, and I'm having an important guest for dinner tonight and I was planning on serving that to Him."

"Yeah, well, OK lady, I understand. Thanks anyway." The man put his arm around the woman's shoulders, turned and headed back into the alley.

As she watched them leave, Ruth felt a familiar twinge in her heart. "Sir, wait!" The couple stopped and turned as she ran down the alley after them. "Look, why don't you take this food. I'll figure out something else to serve my guest." She handed the man her grocery bag.

"Thank you lady. Thank you very much!" "Yes, thank you!" It was the man's wife, and Ruth could see now that she was shivering.

"You know, I've got another coat at home. Here, why don't you take this one." Ruth unbuttoned her jacket and slipped it over the woman's shoulders. Then smiling, she turned and walked back to the street . . .without her coat and with nothing to serve her guest. "Thank you lady! Thank you very much!"

Ruth was chilled by the time she reached her front door, and worried too. The Lord was coming to visit and she didn't have anything to offer Him. She fumbled through her purse for the door key. But as she did, she noticed another envelope in her mailbox. "That's odd. The mailman doesn't usually come twice in one day." She took the envelope out of the box and opened it.

Dear Ruth,

It was so good to see you again. Thank you for the lovely meal. And thank you too, for the beautiful coat.

Love Always,

Jesus

The air was still cold, but even without her coat, Ruth no longer noticed.